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I don't feel that I am being unreasonable when I say this but I don'tt hink I deserved to be barred. I have gone through every single thing that has happened in my mind over the last week. I was only trying to communicate to the best of my abilities. I'm not happy about the decision they made. I have been told to lie low for a while and move on but I can't and anyway don't see why I should to be completely honest. It's not a psychological flaw with in me I just know that I was in the right. I may have not always thought things through but my heart was always in the right place. I am not a bad person but because of my behavioural problems people always label me. If I was a proper bad person I wouldn't have been so accepting of being barred initially. I'd hate to think what a real nasty person would have done to those people if they had barred them. Honestly having a go at me for going past the pub a while back isn't on at all. I use that route from town to the gym when I have to go to town for something. That was innocent. Sure I looked at the pub sometimes but it's only natural to glance over. Just because I communicate a little bit weirdly doesn't mean I am a stalker. Also just because I have a past doesn't mean that I am the same either.I find threatening me with the police is psychologically damaging to me because they are well aware that I am scared of people doing that to me. I told them all my fears and now they are using them against me. If they ever do lift the ban I'm not going to ever trust them again. How can you trust people that intentionally take your fears and use them against you basically to control you? They are probably well aware what they're doing and if they were even remotely friends in the first place they wouldn't do that to me. I was open about my past locally to the newspaper which was stupid but they know what I went through. I can only use the spiritual stuff that I know now as if I make a move on them to apologise then they will call the police on me. They have evidence with previous letters and texts I've sent them. I have a record so I won't only get a warning because I've been done for that offence before. There is no law about getting into the minds of people from the inside with the spiritual stuff I have learnt. There never can be a criminal offence for that because scientifically this belief practice isn't proven and therefore doesn't really exist. I would love to be unbarred but first I need to be able to trust them when or if and eventually when they do lift the barring. I am rather hurt at the moment so personally I don't feel that I can trust them again yet. I'm doing what they want though so that they will feel that they can trust me. I'm keeping away because that is what they want me to do. That is how I can prove to them that I can be trustworthy. I'm not contacting them. I've told the karaoke guy to apologise on my behalf and he did which is all that is needed. It shouldn't have come to this but they personally should have been more forceful with me. If I stepped out of line they should have sat me down when they saw me and been as harsh as possible to inprint it into my head that they don't like to communicate in writing.